Here's a checklist of symptoms:
- All-or-nothing thinking: You look at things in absolute, black-and-white categories.
 - Over generalization: You view a negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat.
 - Mental filter: You dwell on the negatives and ignore the positives.
 - Discounting the positives: You insist that your accomplishments or positive qualities don't count.
 - Jumping to conclusions:
 - Mind-reading - you arbitrarily assume that people are reactive negatively to you;
 - Fortune-telling - you arbitrarily predict that things will turn out badly.
 - Magnifications or minimization: You blow things way out of proportion or you shrink their importance.
 - Emotional reasoning: You reason from how you feel: "I feel like an idiot, so I must be one."
 - Should statements: You criticize yourself or other people with "shoulds," "shouldn'ts," "musts," "oughts," and "have tos."
 - Labeling: Instead of saying "I made a mistake," you tell yourself, "I'm a jerk" or "a loser."
 - Personalization and blame:
 - You blame yourself for something you weren't entirely responsible for/
 - You blame other people and overlook ways that you contributed to a problem.
 
*David D. Burns, MS. Revised 1992

Interesting - wonder which one you think I have....
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