I Need Flirting Help, So Be a Gal, Not a Pal

Once I find a girl with whom I can hold a conversation for more than 20 minutes, one of the next things I look for is if they are flirtatious with me (or at least seem interested...or at least don't seem completely disgusted.)

Alissa Goodwin Snell, Utah's iconic dating coach, offers these helps to ladies to answer whether or not they are showing their men the right, flirtatious signs. She writes:

To identify if you act like a pal instead of a gal, ask yourself the following:

Do I occasionally tilt my head and smile at him from across the room, look away, and then look back again?
Do I ever cross my legs and gently tap my foot in his direction or slowly play with my hair, jewelry, or a pen when he is near?
Do I act feminine when I talk with him (i.e., soften and fluctuate my voice, talk with my hands, tilt my hips, cross my legs, or touch him briefly)?
Do I let him open my door or accept his offers of help?
Do I make him feel needed, trusted, and appreciated?
Do I express to him my feelings, needs, or opinions—and in a manner that demonstrates my faith that he cares?
Do I leave the conversation early, at a high point, rather than waiting for him to say he has to go?

Special message for my future girlfriend: I hate to admit it but these simple ploys really do work on me. When the time is right, you'll know what to do.

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